Because Agape love was never designed to be easy. It was designed to be unconditional. And unconditional love, by definition, cannot have a condition that says I will only do this when it feels good. The commandment is the commandment regardless of how the other person is behaving. We have spent this week building a framework. Four types of love. Match them to the right relationship. Understand that giving love can cost you something while receiving real love should not hurt