Spiritually, physically, and relationally. Unforgiveness is not a neutral place to stay. It is actively costing you something every single day you hold it. And the person you are trying to punish by withholding forgiveness is not the one paying the highest price. You are. We have been with Eric all week. His wife and unborn child killed in a car crash caused by a driver named Matt, a twenty year old firefighter who fell asleep at the wheel after a twenty four hour shift. We h

Because culture handed you a version of forgiveness that is almost impossible to actually do. And then told you that if you can't do that version, you haven't really forgiven. No wonder it feels impossible. The good news is that God's version of forgiveness looks very different from what most of us were taught. I want to tell you about a man named Eric. In October 2006, Eric received a phone call with devastating news. His wife, who was 30 years old at the time, and his unbor